Face-to-Face or Text It Out?

 "Is it exceptable to break-up with someone via text message? Why or Why not?" 

Well isn't that a great question? In my personal opinion I don't think it its acceptable to break-up with someone through a text message or any other messaging device. It should always be face-to-face, but like all other rules there are a few exceptions.

Now I know what your thinking, its never okay to breakup with someone via text message. It distasteful, they don't give scrap about that persons feelings, and if they're willing to break-up with someone thought any type of messaging system then that automatically makes them an asshole. Even thought these are really good reasons why someone should break-up via text most people see this in black-and-white. THERE ARE SHADES OF GREY PEOPLE!!!!!!! I find it so amazing that most people automatically think that the person that is being dumped is the victim, but you know what?………. Sometimes they deserved it.

 In my book there are only a handful of really good reasons to break-up with someone through text. Being caught in the act of cheating and there is a strong possibility of being violently attack in my opinion are very good reasons to break-up with someone via text.

Breaking up with a person via text would seem cowardly and shameful to most people but the threat of being violently attack and possibility causing a scene in a public place are two things the average person would want to avoid. I know that it's not likely that the person that being broken-up would take it lightly but some people just take it over board. If the person that is being dumped has a history of violence then you probably don't want to be in throwing distance of them when the time comes. I could understand why someone wouldn't want to break-up with them face-to-face, at risk of being horribly dismembered. Because everyone knows angry people are scary especially if you're the one that made them angry. 

Getting caught cheating on the other had is different story. Being a cheater automatically says that that person doesn't give a crap about their girlfriend's/boyfriend's feelings ( and that they're stupid enough not to take proper precautions and get caught while they're playing the cheating game). But being caught in the act and being accused of cheating are two entirely different things. Don't break-up with someone because you think they're cheating. That's stupid and you'll feel extra crappy when you broke-up with them for no reason and you did it through a text. That's not smart at all. Anyway back on topic, if you're a cheater, why should the person dumping you care about dumping you nicely? I think the text that ends that relationship is a swift kind of karma.

My Playlist, Myself

Reposted from Musicmachinery.com

1. Wonderland by Natalia Kills
2. Set the Fire to the Third Bar by Snow Patrol
3.  Architect of the Mind by Kerry Muzzey
4. Be Back Soon by Justin Nozuka
5.  Alive (Acoustic) by Krewella
6. Untimely Meditations by Saul Williams

http://hypster.com/hypsterPlayer/MPL?media_type=playlist&playlist_id=6875140&us_id=5150693

The songs that I’ve chosen are all from my Top 25 Most Played list. There are over three thousand songs in my iTunes library so I thought it would be quicker and easier to songs out of the top twenty-five. The songs that are listed above are not the first five of the list but my favorite songs out of the bunch. Half of these songs (1,4,and 5) I found while YouTube surfing and the others (2,3 and 6) were most likely from Pandora. The variety of songs would throw the average person off since each song is of a different genre. Most people would probably assume that I have very wide taste in music and they’re right, I do. I dabble in just about everything except country music, but even with my wide range of music if someone tried to get to know me from this playlist they would be better off trying to hotwire a car. Music can’t tell you everything. Listening to this playlist won’t be able to tell a person my favorite color or hobby. How I interpret these songs could be completely different than someone else’s interpretation so listening to the playlist what they would learn from them would be close to meaningless if they didn’t know me already. The six songs that I’ve chosen aren’t necessarily connected to my personality or how I view myself, but more about the emotions evoked by the lyrics. I honestly think musical preference and personality are strongly connected to one another but it’s very hard to just use music in trying to figure out someone’s personality when lyrics could be interpreted in a number of different ways.



Test Post Two

LOL....... She thought it was a cherry.

Test Post One

Test Post One


Spin Magazine from the 80's

This is my first post.